Making the first move can often be framed as potential embarrassment, humiliation, and awkwardness vs potential happiness, joy, and all your wildest dreams coming true. The question ‘should I make the first move’ is really saying ‘should I take a risk?’ Paul was once running in the same circle of friends as Mariah Carey. Shortly after the premiere of Glitter he decided to take a risk and make the first move on Mariah because he figured she’d be so buzzed over the success of her first film that she’d have to say yes. Paul got slapped. For a powerful psychic, Paul is surprisingly unlucky in love.